Recently I have stayed “Online” status with facebook chat, something I seldom do because I dont really like talking to people, I’d rather stay hidden. So I’m almost 85% positive I can tell when someone is trying to hit on me or is trying to “get to know me”. This is why I dont like chat, I dont like dealing with that. How do I ignore them politely without seeming like an ass? Suppose theres no way. Most guys would be all like, “Fuck yeah, shes into me let’s hit it and quit it!” I’m not a bro douchebag that likes to fuck every girl he sees. I will go back to my black void now. Thanks.
Just a tangent.
It is very apprarent that some people use tumblr for the soul purpose of amassing the largest number of followers possible. They boast about it 2k, 10k, 100k+ followers. This could be do to several reasons; I personally believe its because they may have self esteem issues or are socially awkward, etc. and they long to feel important, famous, idolized and they try to accomplish that here by becoming a tumblr legend or it’s some sort of contest to them. If that’s the case, carry on. However, how many of those people are actually friends and not just a statistic? I thought of this as I see my number of followers fluctuate I lose one and gain two, lose three gain one. The number does not matter to me, infact I’m surprised at the amount of followers I’ve actually acquired over time; way higher than I ever thought I’d have. Some of those loyal to me have actually praised me for liking my page, and have been there since I first started. Which means we have similar interest, and or they are not conceited about their self image. It just got me to thinking why people unfollow in the first place, because my post “dirty” their dash? Oh, I’m sorry for ruining your flawless tumblr reputation. I suppose the truth behind this concept is, if you are not willing to stick around or be a loyal follower for who I am and you unfollow me because my blog changed and you no longer like its post tarnishing you dashboard, chances are we would not have been good friends if we ever met in person since you do not like my tastes and you’re too worried about your self image. True story.
It kind of bothers me in an odd way: !.) I don’t take compliments very well, 2.) If I’m so “handsome” why don’t I have a “pretty” gal to call my own? LIES.